The Nice Guy…
People think being a nice guy means letting everyone get to the front of the queue, while trampling you enroute. They mistake a nice guy for a door mat, or a fool.
In fact, being a nice guy is not about passivity, or being a weakling.
A nice guy is empathetic – he works hard to focus, not on himself and his needs, but rather on the other person and their needs.
Key learning point – A nice guy is nice because he is empathetic. He works hard to discover what the customer desires, and then sets about satisfying that desire.